Wednesday, October 23, 2013

School Days

Well now that it is Oct I think I'll write the back to school post!  :)  As I mentioned before Mason goes to the Spanish Immersion preschool on Tuesday mornings.  It is designed for native English speakers, but the teachers, owner, and secretary are native Spanish speakers.  They teach typical preschool curriculum, but they do it all in Spanish.  They are a Christian school, sing songs everyday while Mrs. Lorena plays her guitar, have a school garden, compost, recycle, all things I love.  At the beginning of this year he was dragging his feet about wanting to go to school.  Then after the second or third week Lorena told me there is a child there that has hit Mason the past couple times.  I didn't freak out because I know some kids go through a hitting phase.  We did figure out that Mason didn't want to go to school because of the "mean boy".  I tried to brush it off with him, and tell him that if it happens again to yell at the boy "Hey! Don't hit me!"  As much as I wanted to coddle him (he is my sensitive boy - actually both my boys are sensitive) I don't want him to be a wuss or turn into the kid that's always picked on.  But after a couple more weeks of him not liking school because of it I decided to talk to Lorena about switching his day.  Thankfully the day I was going to talk to her about it I found out he wasn't going there anymore!  I don't know the reasons, but I am thankful!  He now loves to go to Spanish school and Lorena said he has turned into a completely different kid these past couple of weeks.  He is really starting to speak the language a lot more this year.  Lorena told me yesterday that Mason, unprompted, told her "cierra la puerta" (shut the door) and later when we was done with the activity they were doing he said "no mas" (no more).  We were in Ross on Monday and there was a Hispanic lady with her daughter there speaking Spanish.  So he said loudly "Mom she is speaking Spanish."  I told him to say Hola and Buenos dias.  Anyway the lady loved it, and we all ended up chatting for a bit!  It's amazing how quickly kids can pick up language!
A few other things Lorena told me at his conference yesterday:
*He pays attention to detail.  He makes sure everything gets put back in it's proper place.  She was surprised when he went and put her pen that was on the table inside her binder since that is where she normally keeps it.
*His favorite school activity is puzzles and/or tangrams.
*He wouldn't usually sing along with their songs, but she noticed that he would always stare at the guitar.  So one day she asked him to sit on her lap and "play" the guitar with her, and then he sang right along with her!  Which now explains why he will get his guitar and say that he is going to play and sing like Mrs. Lorena. 
*He loves to learn.  He pays close attention to what they are doing, and will even ask her questions about how to say a particular word in Spanish. 
*He is well behaved and obeys, but often she has to explain why he has to do something (ex clean up so we can do ___) before he will do it. 
*I took a picture of the maze he did at school yesterday.  I've never done a maze with him before, and this was his first one at school.  Lorena made him do it a couple times to see if he really did it or if it was just chance that he didn't mess up.  Apparently he knows how to do them.  Thinking back there is a preschool website I let him get on sometimes, and I think it might have a maze on there.
Thursdays both Mason and Paxton go to Kids Day Out at the Rogers Cross Church.  They both love it!  I was so thrilled that Mason's best friend, Titus, is also in his class.  He is always excited to go to "Titus' school" as he calls it.  I think Paxton cried briefly the first time or two I dropped him off.  The 3rd time he clung to me, but didn't cry.  Now the past 2 or 3 times he lunges into his teachers arms without hesitation or a glance back at me.  My boys are not home bodies - I'm afraid I may be partly to blame for that.  Here are some pictures from their first day of school. 






Paxton loves to wear his backpack.  He will often fuss when I make him take it off.  I guess it makes him feel like a big kid.  Masons tells me his favorite thing about the school is the rope.  They apparently have all the kids hold on to this long rope when they walk to different parts of the building so they stay together.  Why he thinks that is so cool I don't know.  Two weeks ago they had a fire truck there for the kids to climb in.  When I asked him his favorite thing of the day I thought surely he would say that.  Nope it was again the rope.  Who does this weird kid belong to?  ;o) 
The boys are the only ones enjoying their Thursday mornings!  I don't usually do anything super exciting - mostly run errands or clean since it is nearly impossible to do it when they are around.  I remember seeing this family circus cartoon in the newspaper when I was in high school where the mom was cleaning up the house and behind her was the kids making a huge mess after she had cleaned.  It's funny that stuck with me as a teen, but that's definitely how I feel most days I try to clean with my two toddlers around. 

Thursday, October 17, 2013

Life with boys

So I have to share a funny story from this morning.  Today both boys have their kids day out.  So I let the boys go out to the garage while I am carrying little C (I'm babysitting a sweet 8 month old girl for a friend this week - she's napping right now).  I hit the garage door button and open the van doors.  While I'm loading C into the car, I hear "Mom, MOM!!  Help me!!!"  I look out the car and Mason is dangling from the edge of the garage door that now rests up at the ceiling!  I had several emotions in the 5-10 seconds it took me to get to him.  Panic, laughter, wish I could take a picture of this, what on earth were you thinking!  It took everything I had not to fall over laughing after I got him down...it was a miracle I only let a few giggles escape.  I could tell he was pretty traumatized because he said, "I ok, mommy, I ok" literally 10 times after I got him down.  I know he was saying it more to calm himself down.  Then we had to get a Dora and Boots band aid for his finger because the thin metal edge he was gripping on for dear life had dug into his fingers.  I guess he decided to grab it when it was moving up and then before he knew it he was dangling.  Oh I wish I had a picture of it!  I'm pretty sure he is going to talk about it all day because that was the first thing he told his teacher when we got to school.  These boys run me ragged with their energy, curiosity, and sense of adventure.  There are some days that I wish they would be more still and calm - like yesterday at the library when we had to leave story time early - but then I remind myself that while they can drive me crazy sometimes they bring such joy and laughter to the family!
On a side note the boys are doing really well with having little C around.  The first thing Mason said when he saw her, "Is she my sister?!"  He is so ready to get his sister here!  Both boys enjoy loving and kissing on her.  It is so sweet!  Mason is enthralled with the different bows she wears everyday - looks like I'm going to need to go bow shopping.  Paxton wasn't sure about me holding her a lot at the beginning, but he's doing better now.  I just have to go back and forth holding them or sit down and hold both of them.  He's not quite ready to give up the baby status, and I'm not quite ready either.  Anyway, I know that Mason is going to be so sad not having C around next week.  She leaves every afternoon when he's sleeping, and he is always disappointed to wake up and see she is gone.  Love these boys, and I can't wait till our little girl gets here!

Sunday, October 13, 2013

HE provides

So this is way past due, but I just wanted to share how amazing it's been to see how God has provided financially for our adoption.  When we started we weren't exactly sure how on earth we would be able to come up with about $30,000.  Several people that have been through it already told us not to worry about it because God will provide.  I was a little doubtful at first, but then we just took the leap of faith, and boy has He delivered!  Don't get me wrong, we've had to make some sacrifices and cuts to our budget-especially since I bring in $0 to the family-but God has worked in more ways than we could ever imagine!
So in August we received the largest bill of the adoption. Thankfully we were able to pay most of it due to our very generous church family (as well as several others).  We were just short $1,500.  We planned to take it out of our savings when a special someone donated $1,000 to our little A.  Then a day or two later we got a $500 check in the mail from a grant we were awarded.  God provided exactly what we were lacking. 
About a month ago a couple ladies from church hosted a last minute garage sell for us and our friends the Wilsons who are adopting a beautiful little girl from China.  The garage sale made $3,000!!  Craziness!  We were just hoping for $1,000 (to split between the two families) and praise the Lord he tripled our expectation!  Then our family got chosen as a recipient of the Titus Task grant.  I wasn't sure if we would receive enough individual donations to get the full matching grant, but we did in just the nick of time!  We are so thankful to the many who have prayed for our little girl and donated money to help get her home!  Please continue to keep her in your prayers.  There is a lot of stuff going on in the DRC adoption realm that I will try to post on soon. 
Here are some pictures from the garage sale.  Our preacher's wife spear-headed the whole thing, and we had it at their house.  Keith (the preacher) even spent the night in a tent on his front lawn since we couldn't get most of the stuff  inside the garage!  Love those guys!
 


Big thanks to these wonderful ladies!  Stephanie is a garage sale queen.  I think she was at Michele's house before 6am that morning!



Zac brought the boys by for a little while to check out the excitement and eat some donuts.